The one of hardest thing in life is to realize what exactly you want, what's your choice. Nothing is absolute. The primary fact of life (human, earth, universe) is change. life is changing continuously so our wants and choices. Compromise and adaptation, when they are favorable to you at that time you think that is your choice but when they are not at your side you think that is compromise. Nothing is good or bad, their cause and effect can be the determinant. Same act for good cause and bad cause is interpreted differently. In the similar way, if the outcome or the effect of a act is positive then it is taken positively.
If you stand at the top you see the below mountain at low level and if you go downhill of the mountain you will see it at the top. So the perception is also not absolute. Don't blame others. When they climb up their thinking also changes so the perception of the preceptor.
